You may have noticed a significant lack of youth in
Catholic churches lately. As a
millennial and a cradle Catholic, I may be able to offer some insight into why
so many young people leave the Church at this point in their lives. Most of the people I went to high school with
are no longer practicing Catholics, and their process of falling away started
in high school or earlier. There could
be many reasons for this, from lack of strong examples in their home lives, to
wanting to assert their individuality, to simply becoming disillusioned with
the faith for whatever reason.
I never experienced this falling away, and I attribute that
to several factors. Firstly, I had great
adult role models in my immediate family.
Secondly, I had wonderful formation in my early teens. The Madeleine Choir School recently had the
opportunity for parents to experience a “Mr. Glenn religion class.” While I joked at the time that the
participants wouldn’t get the full effect unless they sat on metal folding
chairs and took copious notes from the old overhead projector, I think it was a
great idea. Being in one of Mr. Glenn
religion classes was like being in a college-level theology course. Of course, religion classes at Judge seemed
very rudimentary after that, which could have contributed to some of my former
MCS classmates leaving the church.
However, I feel like the music background I got at the
Choir School set me on a path to stay in the Church. I continued to participate in choirs in high
school, joining the Saint Ambrose Parish choir my junior year. I’ve been involved in our parish music
ministry ever since to varying degrees.
Music is what has kept me in the Church. I was reminded exactly why this was at the
Mass for Our Lady of Mount Carmel on Monday at the Carmelite convent. A group of us sang who have all been touched
by Choir School training in some way. I
have written before about going back to the roots of our faith when I sing the
traditional Latin texts and chants.
Monday night gave me another opportunity to do this. The most touching parts of the Mass for me
though were times when I wasn’t
singing. Hearing the nuns chant the
Sequence from the cloister, and hearing Fr. Christopher Gray and a seminarian
from Texas chant the solemn form of the Salve Regina at the end of Mass really
gave me a taste of what it might be like to live in a religious community.
The important thing here is that young people need to find
an aspect of Church life that they can be involved in that they are passionate
about. They need something to rejuvenate
their spirituality as they grow into adulthood.
I was lucky that I found mine at a relatively young age. I realize that I had it pretty easy when it
came to finding my niche in Church life.
Many young people do not have the same opportunity. That is why it is important for the adults in
their lives to encourage young people to continue to explore the faith and
discern their calling.
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